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Yesterday I decided to go to the bar around the corner from my house to have a late lunch, early dinner. When I got there, there were only a handful of people at the bar.I have been going to this bar for about 8 years now so I know everyone that works there and I know a lot of the patrons. I sit down, say hi to those I know, order a drink and lunch and start reading my book.

My phone keeps lighting up and to my excitement they are leads popping up in my email. (I have a blackberry and get my email on my phone)

The guy across from me is reading the newspaper. The two guys sitting to my left are watching the soccer game on tv. The two guys on my right are talking, in very loud voices, about how bad things are and the economy, the usual negative talk.

I call the girl behind the bar over and ask her to do me a favor and buy a round for everyone on my tab. “Sure! No Problem! What are you celebrating?” she aks. “Nothing, just feel like buying everyone a drink.” I answer.

Here is where it gets interesting. While she is getting the drinks, the guy next to me looks over at me and says, “Thanks for the drink. I notice your phone keeps going off, you must be popular.”

“No, actually I have my own business and people are contacting me for more information.” I say.
“Wow, your own business huh? With the economy the way it is, it must be tough.” He says.

“Actually it is doing awesome thanks! Business is out of control.”

He leans back away from me and gets this real nasty tone and attitude and says, “How is it that everyone else is losing their homes, big businesses are shutting their doors, people are getting laid off, and your business is doing well. You’re telling me that everyone else is suffering and you are doing just fine?”

“Yes, I am thriving. The economy is not bad, it is just different (I quoted Brent from the visionaries call) and I know a lot of people that are doing far better than I am.” I said back with a big smile on my face.

He stopped talking to me, (which was fine because I didn’t want his negativity) and went on to bitch to his friend about me. He was mad at me for doing well, mad at me for being happy, and mad at me for not being a victim. Because I didn’t see things from his point of view and because I wouldn’t be part of his pitty party, he was actually hostile toward me.

You hear all the time at people being mad at someone because they are the downer or the party pooper but how do you like that? Being mad at someone because they are taking control and living their life full out.

And yes, I still bought him his beer. I was doing that for my benefit in the first place!

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